Simplicity

  • How Tidy, Beautiful Spaces Impact Mental Health

    Have you ever noticed how much your environment actually impacts you? 

    Remember that inexplicably strange feeling when you walk into a room and simply want to turn around and leave? Or spending time in your favourite coffee shop that smells so divine and has the most comfortable lounge that you have a hard time leaving? 

    The truth is every environment has a significant impact on our health. In our modern world, however, many environments cause us stress, lack of focus, and illness due to being mismatched with how our brain functions.

     

    Brain research and our environment 

    What does brain research have to do with the environment we live and work in? A lot, actually. According to WHO, mental health conditions are increasing rapidly worldwide. Designing and creating interiors, architecture, and environments that activate the brain’s natural healing mechanisms to enhance health, sustainability, and quality of life is crucial.

    Neurodesigner and author Isabelle Sjovall has studied this fascinating connection between our brains and environments and emphasises in her recent book “Designfulness” that design is a constant presence in our lives. To make the most of it, we need to actively shape our environments rather than simply being passive recipients of them. 

    Designfulness can be used when choosing materials, furniture, colours, lighting etc., to enhance our well-being. 

     

    What can you do to actively change your environment?

    On a larger scale, you can’t obviously impact the architecture and design of your city, schools, offices and other public environments unless you want to get active in your local community and politics. But you can start small and transform your home and potentially your workspace, at least on the inside. 

    As you might have already guessed, the first step is to declutter. Most people have too much stuff, and no wonder it feels stuffy and stressful at home (or at work!) when piles of things need attention. 

    Here’s my top-10 list to start your journey to more lightness and being in control of your environment:

    1. 1. Start small and tackle one tiny area or category at a time
    2. 2. Spend max 15-20 mins/day on your mini project. Otherwise, you won’t finish
    3. 3. Make sure you focus on keeping only what brings you joy and is useful
    4. 4. Get rid of items that you haven’t used in the last year
    5. 5. Donate or sell items in good condition that you no longer need or want
    6. 6. Group similar items together and store them in a way that is logical and makes sense to you and your family
    7. 7. If you need to buy something new (other than necessities), think twice before clicking “buy” or simply sleep on it first
    8. 8. ‘One in – one out’ principle. Make space for the new item by getting rid of something you no longer use and need
    9. 9. Add two bins to your recycling area for 1. donations and 2. items to sell. Take action when they’re full.
    10. 10. Maintain the decluttered state by regularly editing, organising and letting go of excess items. 

    How does a tidy space affect us?

    If you’ve ever tried reducing and re-organising your home or workspace, you will know how wonderful that feels. You may feel lighter, unburdened, more in control, focused and energised. Until it’s untidy again… 

     An organised space can positively impact one’s mood in several ways:

    1. 1.Reduced stress and anxiety: An organised space can reduce feelings of stress and anxiety by reducing clutter and making it easier to find what you need
    2. 2. Improved focus and productivity: A tidy environment can help you focus on the task at hand and increase your productivity
    3. 3. Boosted mood and confidence: Being surrounded by an organised space can lead to a boost in mood and confidence
    4. 4. Increased relaxation: A decluttered space can create a sense of calm and relaxation, which can positively impact your mental well-being
    5. 5. Better sleep: An organised and tidy bedroom can promote better sleep, leading to a more refreshed and energetic mood

     Overall, having an organised space can help create a positive and calm environment, leading to improved mood, well-being and relationships. 

     

    Does your space need to be visually beautiful too?

    There is no right or wrong answer to this question. Beauty is in the viewer’s eyes and means different things to each and every one of us. 

    In my experience working with many clients, I always make an effort to make the space visually attractive so that the end result is significantly different from the starting point. It is an absolute game-changer, in my opinion. Usually, I beautify a space simply by using what the client already owns, just placing and decorating things differently, and giving the items more space to breathe.

    Additionally, think about what increases your feelings of cosiness in your home. Is it having plants, flowers, a fireplace, candles, and many pillows and throws? Is it board games with your loved ones, good food, reading books, listening to music, watching TV, gardening or drinking a cuppa? 

     Make a list to see what makes you tick, and make an effort to add some of your favourites to your home for regular self-care.

    Much love and happy simplifying,
    Helena

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  • 4 Simple Steps to Clutter-Free Living

    Many people think they actually need to get rid of more or less everything they own in order to become clutter-free. Is that true? No, absolutely not! It’s a myth, and I will bust it right here for you, so read on.

    What is clutter-free living?

    I get a lot of questions about whether clutter-free living equals minimalism. There’s actually a big difference between the two. Are you attracted to minimalism and to owning as little as possible? Or do you love having a lot of things around you to feel extra homey and cosy? Either way is right! However, most people are somewhere in between minimalism and maximalism. I call it LAGOM. It’s Swedish (my native language) and means “just right”.

    I invite you right here and now to define your own ideal home and lifestyle. Write it down and keep it in mind. Mine is called “simply lagom”. It’s all about a simplified way of life with just the right balance in all that we are, own and do. What is yours?

    The struggle to become clutter-free

    Clutter-free living to me is living a life surrounded by things you highly value and that makes you happy. It really is quite simple.

    However, for many people it’s a struggle to get there. How come? Well, the path is actually made up of five different parts:

    • >how to find the time and energy to declutter, ie. commitment
    • >figuring out where to start
    • >how to know what really sparks joy out of all the numerous possessions
    • >how to store items so you can always easily find what you’re looking for and
    • >how to maintain the order

    I will teach you four steps below to find your own clutter-free lifestyle and start living a life with less so you can focus on what matters most to you.

    Step 1: Vision

    It was only after going through this process myself, around 6 years ago, that I understood that it is absolutely crucial to first find out what kind of life you wish to lead before getting into decluttering. Even if I had done vision work with my life coaching clients previously, I couldn’t see the same importance within home organising before going through it myself.

    So, what are the most important parts of this vision work?

    Mindset

    Commitment to doing both deep inner and outer work and being in the right place mentally is key.

    Current life assessment
    Acknowledging where there is satisfaction and dissatisfaction and deciding which areas of life to focus on.

    Finding your dream goals
    Why and how do you want to change your home? What is the ultimate goal of decluttering?

    Visualising your dream home and life
    This is where the fun begins. You are allowed to dream as big as you can and deeply look into your personal values, feelings, desires and your ultimate wishes, dreams and ideal lifestyle.

    Step 2: Make a plan, and stick to it

    Acknowledge your limitations
    Some people can, but a lot of people can’t do it all alone. Sometimes external help is needed and required for us to feel in control and happy about our lives.

    Bring in a professional
    This is the step I was struggling with the most during my own decluttering process. I SHOULD be able to do this on my own, right? How hard can it be? Trust me. It’s not a sign of failure to ask for help, it’s a sign of strength and bravery. Think of it as a love letter to yourself. Bringing in a professional organiser was a game changer for me personally, which actually led to me becoming one myself a few years later.

    Commit to the process

    I know, committing to a big, overwhelming process like this might feel daunting. It requires a lot of hard work, time and energy. But it’s so worth it in the end and the end-result is simply priceless.

    Step 3: Declutter your home and let go of everything that no longer serves you

    The book shelves and the internet are full of different decluttering books and methods. There is no one size fits all. However, being a certified KonMari Consultant myself, I am a big fan of using categories. It makes the whole thing so much easier to grasp. However, no matter which decluttering method you decide to follow, the most important rule is this: Focus on what you wish to keep.

    It’s super scary at first to think that you need to let go of a whole lot to reach  your goals. But it’s actually the opposite. It’s really simple once you get the hang of it. Keep only what you love and feel strongly about and let go of the rest (plus some tax papers and other necessities). That’s it.

    Remember: only YOU are in charge of creating Your best life.

    Step 4: Reconsider your (consuming) habits

    Once you’ve successfully decluttered what you wanted and needed to declutter it’s time for the next step. This is a very important step in order for you to be able to maintain your living space clutter-free. The one that keeps the clutter from building up again.

    Clear rules for buying new things

    After finishing this big decluttering feast you might not even want to hit the shops, but the temptation will be there to replace items you discarded once the dust has settled. You might find that there is a need for new rules about bringing new stuff into the house arising. Here are a few situations which you might want to consider creating your own rules for:

    Wardrobe renewal
    Inherited/donated stuff
    Gifts (birthdays/Christmas etc.)
    Online shopping
    Kids’ toys

    What kind of rules would be useful?

    Consider these 4 essential rules first:

    1. Decide if, when and how many new things you will allow into your home at any given moment.
    2. When it comes to kids, remember that the parents are the gatekeepers, at all times.
    3. Consider applying the “one-in one-out principle” or do a seasonal detox for your clothes.
    4. Ask “why” before buying anything. Sleep on it before pressing the “order” button. Remind yourself that everything is 100% off if you don’t buy it at all. And most buys happen for an emotional reason anyway.

    No home can function well without rules and systems. Once all your belongings have a set home and all household members have their own areas of responsibility it will lead to consistent feelings of calm and being at peace in your home. After all, being able to relax more and enjoy peaceful relationships in your own sanctuary is way more attractive than constantly tidying up and looking at random piles. So…when shall we get started?

    “Buy less.
    Choose well.
    Make it last. Quality, not quantity.
    Everybody’s buying far too many clothes.”
    Vivienne Westwood

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